I guess I've been aware of it for a while, but it really became something I started thinking about a few years ago. I'm curious though what your thoughts are on the fraction that that fetishize it.
Now I'd like to preface by stating that I'm clearly not saying this is something all (white) men are into, or that it's something that is even a majority. can we talk about this a bit? I've been trying to wrap my head around this for a while, and it's killing me.